1 The number #1 secret of talking to girls? LISTEN! Don't talk at all. :-) Let HER do all of the talking and just feed her fire to do it! I'm not telling you to be a big bore, rather - let her be the center stage star of the conversation and let her keep it interesting. If she's REALLY hot - laugh at all her jokes..:-) Even the dumb ones! (Especially the dumb ones) When the conversation is over....she'll give you her digits for sure, and wonder if SHE bored YOU rather than you having to wonder if you said or did the wrong thing. Besides....a woman who feels comfortable talking her rear end off to you..will feel comfortable a lot faster with a whole heck of a lot more!
2 You've got to master the art of curiosity. Women, as you know - LOVE to talk. Even the girls you don't think like to talk, do. Trust me, deep down - once you get to know her better, you'll discover she's as silly and talkative as the rest of us. So be curious. Ask a lot of good questions and she'll open up. And I don't mean questions like - "come here often" or " what's your phone number". :-) I mean, be genuinely and sincerely interested in what she has to say, and she will respond in kind.
3 You've got to master the art of self depreciation. What's this mean? Be able to laugh at yourself in conversation with her. Girls love a guy who can tease himself and doesn't take life so seriously. There are LOTS of guys out there who are good looking, have good jobs, etc - but who are just BORING as hell. Why? They take themselves WAY too seriously and sweat the small stuff. This may work for a while, and even get you a date or two up front, but down the road, trust me when I tell you - if you want to keep her interested - laugh and keep it light.
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