Attracting Women

Learning how to talk to girls to make them ask you out is easier than you might think. In fact, after you overcome the fear and nervousness that talking with girls brings, getting them interested in you is really easy if you know the right techniques. It's all about giving them the impression that you're of high value. Allow me to explain.

Every human interaction should be thought of as a negotiation. When a conversation between people takes place, there is a constant exchange of information and knowledge. In most cases, there is a dominant partner in the conversation. That is the person who is talking more substance, being more interesting, and generally providing the energy in the dialogue. This person is generally perceived as being the more confident, interesting, and valuable. This makes them attractive.

The problem with most men is that no matter how experienced or successful they are, they find it difficult to bring out their natural energy and passion in conversations with beautiful women. This is a normal thing. We don't want to look stupid, or say something wrong. What if we do something stupid and she loses interest in us? These thoughts are wrong, and detrimental to the overall attraction "game".

The key to how to talk to girls is to imagine them as just another person. Even better, imagine that she's unattractive and uninteresting. This will lessen your nerves, and you will be able to utilise your full potential. Talk about the things you like, allow her to respond, dictate the conversation. Pick up certain topics that she brings up, and talk about your experiences with those topics.

If you've proven your "value" by being relaxed, engaged, and confident, you will find that she won't want to leave the conversation. You might even find that she is the one getting nervous! This is perfect. Here is where you have to manipulate her into asking you out. Don't worry, you're not tricking her, you're just providing her with a perfect opportunity to ask you out.

When the time feels right, mention a bar or club. Say something like, "have you been to (insert name of bar here)?" She'll either say yes or no. Disregarding whether she says yes or no, your next line should be something like, "Yeah, I really want to go check it out actually." Hopefully, her next line will be something like, "yeah, you should really go see it". Here is where you have to be brave and say, "oh, are you asking me to go there with you?" Now, if she likes you she'll say yes straight away. If she doesn't she won't, and you need to move on to the next girl. Either way, practice makes perfect!